"Which One's the Man?" and 17 Other Questions To Stop Asking Women Who Date Women
Stephanie Barnes
May 22, 2020
CaptionWhen it comes to romantic relationships between two women, it seems there’s always that one person who just has to ask an inappropriate question. Sure, sometimes, these questions could be coming from a genuine place of curiosity, but they’re mostly just rude and intrusive—especially when they’re focused on sex.
So, in an effort to educate the masses, I’ve enlisted the help of some friends to share the most ridiculous questions they’ve actually been asked while navigating the world as a woman who dates women.Getty ImagesIt’s easy to highlight all of the insensitive and rude questions posed by straight men, but women also have their moments. To the women who are genuinely curious about sex with other women: don’t ask your lesbian bestie this. Just because she dates women doesn’t mean that she’s attracted to you! And even if she is attracted to you and says yes to your request, things could get messy and the friendship could suffer. If you really want to explore your sexuality, get on a dating app and make your expectations crystal clear.
